A High Opinion of Yourself

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Sometimes we say things like, “He has a high opinion of himself.”

It’s not usually a compliment.

And when I’ve used that phrase in the past I haven’t meant it as a compliment either.  But, what’s wrong with having a high opinion of yourself?

I certainly want my swimmers to have high opinions of themselves.

It’s just that I also want them to have a high opinion of the people around them.  I want them to regard others—especially teammates—with dignity and optimism and an ample benefit of the doubt.

Thinking a lot of ourselves is not the problem.  Placing ourselves above others is.

We’re not talking conceit or vanity.  How about simply thinking you have what it takes.

Waking up each morning knowing it.  That ought to give you a little boost getting out the door and making things happen. Making YOUR LIFE happen.

Active not passive.

Have a high opinion of yourself and what you bring to the table. Then act accordingly.  Wow people.

3 thoughts on “A High Opinion of Yourself”

  1. Good job Chris…As teacher, facilitator,coach it is hard to guide that fine line. Good Luck!

  2. Yes! A healthy high opinion of yourself = confidence and courage. It does not = arrogance or narcissism. Empathy is the key that makes the difference!

    1. Thanks Connie! So true, I love it. It’s how we view others as much as how we view ourselves. Thanks for reading.

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